English word origin

Etymology of kiki

In the sense "lesbian who is neither butch nor femme", sometimes said to mean "neither-nor" in some language; related to kai kai (“sexual activity between drag queens”); see that entry for more. In the sense "a gathering

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Unnumbered source etymology

Original entry ↗

verb

To meet with friends without any agenda or goals.

noun

A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat. · A lesbian who is neither butch nor femme.

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