English word origin

Etymology of DTMFA

Coined by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, in Savage Love.

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Unnumbered source etymology

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verb

Initialism of dump the motherfucker already, as advice to a partner in a relationship.

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Coined by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, in Savage Love.

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